Joe Vela, Emojibator

How do you suggest someone approaches Phone or FaceTime sex for the First time? 

The same way you should approach in-person sex. Communicate. Talk about what you like and what you don’t like as well as your boundaries. Set aside some toys or outfit changes if that’s something you’re into.

What do you suggest for mental prep for phone sex? 

Prepare to go outside of your comfort zone. You might not normally be a big talker or not use to asking for what you want during sex, but it’s important to do in a virtual setting since you are relying on communication. Personally, cybersex doesn’t usually fill me up like the real thing, so it can sometimes lead to blue balls, or be a tease, but with the right person, it can also be very fun, rewarding, and tantric.

[Photo via @jvbeats]

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