Joe Vela
What are your essentials to have nearby for phone sex?
Definitely some sexy outfits. I find it extremely hot when someone models for me. If you like toys, there is no better phone sex accessory than our emoji-inspired vibrator line.
What are the differences you need to think about phone vs video sex?
Phone sex requires a bit more imagination which is a great practice. You can also wear whatever you want, or nothing at all without the person on the other line knowing. With phone sex, you might need to use a wider vocabulary to fully express yourself to the other person. In contrast, video sex is great for showing and teasing without words. The camera can also be used to show a unique perspective and tell a story.
How to ask for or approach what you want?
I think it’s as simple as says “I would like…” or “Would you be comfortable with…”