She said she couldn't come to the wedding last minute, like three days beforehand, and then ghosted me.

I tried really hard not to be a bridezilla. I thought we were all on good terms and having a good time putting a simple wedding together.

But I heard from a mutual friend that she got tired of me asking her to do so much stuff and decided she didn't want to be my friend anymore over it.

I still don't really get it. I bought her dress and shoes for her because she said she couldn't afford it. She had nothing to do with planning the bachelorette party because she said she couldn't afford to chip in. No problem. I only wanted her to attend and have fun with us. We just threw a little party with wine and cheap takeaway food anyway.

The only thing I can remember ever asking her to do was to curl her hair for the wedding because I thought the style looked good with the type of dress they were wearing...

Idk. Maybe I'm not self aware? But the other bridesmaids swear I was a really laid back bride.

It hurts I lost her so suddenly, but I guess it was for the best if she had so little attachment to me in the first place.

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