My sister was a horrible bridesmaid. She was supposed to be MOH but refused to do any of the responsibilities. She would literally call me a bridezilla and yell at me for nagging her when I asked her to help with anything from planning to decorating. She did make the cake though, in the one flavor I asked her not to use because my husband and I both hate it. The fondant was lumpy too but our mom wouldn’t stop bragging about how she belonged on Cake Boss or whatever. She, enabled by our toxic mother, refused to wear any bridesmaids dress I picked, so she got to pick her own specially made dress, I had no say in it. They both put more effort into that dress than any other part of the wedding. She thought we should cancel part of the bachelorette party, that she didn’t even plan, because her zipper broke and she didn’t want us celebrating without her. She screamed vile things at me and stormed off threatening to ruin the whole night for everyone when I told her we would meet her at the restaurant. I could go on, but those are fav highlights of her selfish behavior. We no longer talk because I eventually got tired of dealing with her crazy.

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