Single In The City: 10 Ways To Get Rid Of Your Dating Blues For Good

"You complete me" is bull. You don't want him to be the center of your universe. He doesn't want to be that either. But every guy wants to be doted on by their partner. You think? Well, doting is one thing but being needy and having your world revolve entirely around his is another. Not to mention that it's a lot of pressure! And that kind of pressure is anything but sexy. So what is sexy? Having a life of your own that you love. In other words: -You're busy, driven, self-sufficient and autonomous with your own interests. -You're interesting. You have things going on that contribute to high-quality conversations. -You have something (skills, perspectives, ideas) to contribute to the relationship.

How do you "get a life"? By expanding your interests. Take a class. Get out of your box. Try one new thing every single day. Find your passion. Take up a hobby that excites you. Become excited about your career again. As Katy Perry says: "Stand for something, or you will fall for everything."