The person we stalk usually has very similar interests as us or does things we wish we were doing with our lives
If you’re an aspiring fashion editor, you wouldn’t go hate stalking the Insta-feed of a OBGYN resident. You would hate-stalk all the girls you know (or don’t) who have really amazing fashion jobs. If you really want to get married soon, you would probably creep on people who constantly post about their weddings. The people we hate-stalk give us great clues about what’s missing in our lives or what we would want for ourselves.